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I Called Her My Best Friend But I Was Nothing More Than Just Another Friend For Her


A story Posted by a heartbroken Person: Hope you will find it Interesting!!!

This story is not about one moment in my life rather it is one reality that I can't escape.

As much as I love to be with people, they tend to go away from me and without any particular reason.

Once I made a best friend (let's call her Reena /Varsha anything), I thought that even though I never had more friends but I was happy in my life with her being around. I used to do all crazy stuff with her. It seemed like nothing could go wrong in my life. This was one of those times which I could proudly say that those were the golden days of my life. 

But suddenly, I realized that as much as I thought her to be my best friend, the feelings were not mutual.

For me, she was my best friend...bestie…bae...whatever we call it, but for her, I was just some other friend. Maybe I expected a bit too much. But I ignored it. We used to fight a lot. Then it was a day when i met her last time. I thought everything will be okay now. She would make my days special just as I did for her every time whenever she visits my place(hometown). But she was the same arrogant girl. And when she saw me that day we met,I thought i am meeting a stranger. The first thing she said after we met was that she wont be able to continue this relationship.Even though i stayed for days and we met occasionally but I was broken by her statement. It certainly was the final nail in the coffin.

She never thought that my whole trip was dependent on her and
she left me broken

After i left and reached back to my home. I tried every possible way to be connected to her but she was always in a mood to fight and stop talking. Finally one day i tried to make a plan for her visit to my hometown and somehow she got convinced and on the same night she texts me ataround 12:30am. I slowly tried to open my eyes to read the incoming message since i was in deep sleep and could manage to read this first sentence, that she is not coming and she is fed up of this one sided relationship.I just put down my phone and went to sleep. There was no question of starting any argument at midnight for her statement/decision. Since this was not the end, when she didn't received my reply she called me up and started abusing me unnecessarily that why didn't i reply. I said reply for what? when you had already made a decision,and after couple of abusive words she disconnected the line and blocked me from everywhere.Which i thought was heart breaking. I never said a word to her. I just disconnected her from my life and I don't regret it. It just taught me to never be dependent on anyone. There Could be end number of reasons as why did she left me when she was pretending to be the only one who cares for me more than anyone else in this world. But breaking a heart who was beating only for her had only one reason to stop beating for her and that is LOVE. I let her go because i Loved her and want her to be happy in her life 

This experience just made me a happy-go-lucky heartless guy. And I am doing ok without her or anyone else.

But this experienced has scarred me for a lifetime. I feel a bit scared to make friends anymore. Even till this day, I haven't heard from her. I just hope that she is doing fine. No hard feelings for her. All I can say is that guys just try not to depend on anyone for your happiness. Live life while you can. Travel places all alone without worries. It's nice to have fun with friends but it's even better and satisfying to have fun alone. Thank you! 

From,

Lucky

Editor's Note: 

Not all people are meant to stay in our lives forever. Share if you know how it  feels to say goodbye!!




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